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Men, Set Yourself Free! It’s not a Woman’s job to inspire you!
Men, set yourself free! When a man is doing as little as possible to see what he can get by with (In dating and relationships) he isn’t showing up as a man.
Children try and get by with things, that is their job. Grown-ups are different or supposed to be different. It’s called “ showing up”.
Now as a man reading this you can get upset, distort, defend, or blame — it doesn’t change the truth. It’s a gift! Keep reading…..
A man told me recently, it is your job as women to wake up the world and bring in a different kind of power, he said women don’t know their power. I agreed. (Though job is a debatable term).
He went on to say that if women wouldn’t put up with half the “ shit” us men do to them, try to do to them, try to get away with, things would change. I agreed again.
However, here is the issue, it isn’t our job to be the holder of the “maturity key”…. What he said is totally true in my experience and that is because [Some] men won’t do it themselves!!!
What is the underlying “ un-disclosed here” is that [Some] men are waiting on us to not put up with things in order to grow themselves up to maturity. They won’t just see that how they try and get by with as little as possible isn’t really our issue.